Meet IdaNicole

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IdaNicole provides compassionate care both online and in-person, offering flexible scheduling options including daytime, evening, and some weekend availability to meet your needs.


Who IdaNicole Works With:

  • Adults and couples
  • Individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, or self-esteem challenges
  • Women navigating personal growth and healing
  • Those seeking support for intimacy and trauma


IdaNicole’s Special Interests:

IdaNicole has a particular passion for working with Adult Sexual Health, offering support for individuals interested in:

  • Reclaiming healthy romantic and intimate relationships after trauma
  • Exploring and understanding their sexual identity
  • Discovering how lifestyle and personal interests impact sexual well-being

With a warm, understanding approach, IdaNicole is here to guide you on your journey to personal growth and fulfillment.

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Fostering Intimacy and Communication is so important...


It is really important that we understand what fostering intimacy and effective communication can do to improve our relationships. 


We believe passionately in helping individuals and couples enhance their emotional connection, improve communication skills, and deepen intimacy in their relationships.


Reclaiming healthy romantic and intimate relationships after trauma:

Healing from past trauma is a courageous journey, and Ida is here to support you every step of the way. She offers a safe and compassionate space for individuals looking to reclaim healthy romantic and intimate relationships after experiencing trauma. Her trauma-informed approach focuses on healing, rebuilding trust, and nurturing positive connections.


Sexual Identity Supports:

Exploring and understanding your sexual identity is a deeply personal experience. We provide affirming and inclusive support for individuals navigating questions of sexual orientation, gender identity, and self-acceptance. Ida is dedicated to creating a supportive environment where you can explore your identity with authenticity and without judgement or fear.


Lifestyle and Interests:


Sexual Health and Wellness with IdaNicole

Sexual health is deeply connected to various lifestyle factors and personal interests. IdaNicole’s counselling approach is grounded in expertise and compassion, offering a supportive space to explore and address your unique needs.

Whether you’re seeking guidance on how lifestyle choices and personal passions influence your sexual well-being, incorporating your interests into relationships, or discovering new aspects of your sexuality, IdaNicole provides tailored support to help you thrive.

Services Offered:

  • Individual counselling sessions designed to address your unique goals and challenges
  • Couples therapy to enhance communication, rebuild trust, and foster deeper intimacy in your relationship
  • Guidance for individuals and couples navigating polyamory, including:
  • Exploring and defining relationship agreements
    • Managing jealousy and emotional complexities in non-monogamous relationships
    • Developing effective communication strategies for multiple partners
    • Building trust and maintaining healthy boundaries
  • Support for individuals exploring ethical non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures
  • Tools for incorporating personal passions and lifestyle choices into healthy romantic and intimate connections

IdaNicole is here to guide you on your journey toward greater self-understanding, fulfilling relationships, and sexual wellness tailored to your life.

Let's start working together!


Contact IdaNicole today for a free 15 minute phone consult and learn more about how you can get support in your journey towards a healthier relationship and a fulfilling intimate life.

Text 604-353-8454 or email info@healingfamilymatters.com with "connect with IdaNicole" in the subject line.



About IdaNicole

IdaNicole is a Registered Professional Counsellor (RPC) and Clinical Therapist (CT), holding memberships in esteemed professional organizations such as the Canadian Professional Counsellors Associations and the Association of Counselling Therapists of Alberta. With a commitment to upholding the highest standards of practice, IdaNicole brings a wealth of expertise and dedication to her roll as a counsellor and therapist. Her standing within these reputable associations reflects her unwavering dedication to professional development and adherence to ethical guidlines ensuring that she provides exemplary care and support to her clients.

Who is IdaNicole personally...

As a mother to two grown sons, one of whom is on the autism spectrum, and a grandmother to three grandchildren, my journey has been one of resilience and advocacy. Having faced challenges including abuse, sexual assault, and trauma in my own life, I am deeply committed to empowering others to cultivate healthy, fulfilling relationships.

Driven by my own experiences of navigating through adversity, I recognized a profound lack of accessible resources and support for individuals seeking to heal and thrive in their romantic and sexual lives. This realization ignited my passion to bridge this gap and offer guidance to those on similar paths.

Throughout my life, I have often felt like a square peg in a round hole, with my interests, values, and perspectives diverging from conventional norms. Embracing authenticity amidst societal pressures can be daunting, yet I have learned firsthand the transformative power of self-acceptance and resilience.

With a blend of personal insight and professional expertise, I am dedicated to fostering an environment of understanding, acceptance, and empowerment for individuals seeking to embrace their true selves and cultivate meaningful relationships.

"Learning to be yourself can be a very difficult thing, who knew??? Lol" IdaNicole Hearder

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